Being a plus sized person can be challenging when confronting societal norms and stigma (which it definitely shouldn’t be!), but it doesn’t have to be in the bedroom! You are in full control of your pleasure, your sexuality, and your eroticism and deserve products and sex education that takes all bodies into account. And that’s exactly what we’re here to do today. Below you’ll find our best sex toys for plus sized bodies, best positions, and other fantastic sex tips so that nothing will get in the way of your pleasure!
Best Sex Toys for Plus Sized Bodies
Vibrating Massage Wands
Our best, most recommended product for all bodies, but especially plus sized ones are definitely vibrating massage wands such as the Magic Wand. Vibrating massage wands are amazing for back massages, intense clitoral massage or penile stroking, and are incredible during bondage scenes as a leave-on vibrator.
Our most popular wand, the Magic Wand Rechargeable, is one of the strongest wands on the market, delivering signature deep rumbly vibrations that penetrate deeper into the skin stimulating the internal clitoral structure and sometimes even the prostatic nerves for penis owners. Overall, an amazing product that we can’t recommend enough.
However, if you’re looking for a powerful rumbly massage wand on a budget, we suggest the Please Indulge 2. It has a lot of power, rumbly vibrations, and is half the price, with a lifetime warranty and a bundle with attachments for every body! Or if you want a waterproof wand for baths and showers that is app-compatible to connect with long distance partners, check out the Wand by We-Vibe!
G-Spot Vibrators
G-spot toys are an amazing way for you to pleasure yourself and have a partner possibly bring you squirting orgasms again and again! What we love about them for hot curvy girl sex is that there is no external vibrator to interrupt internal bliss, and you can get deeper penetration with them. Additionally, because they’re made for the g-spot (or p-spot!), the vibration motors are located at the top curve of these toys and are so strong that they can also be used as a clitoral vibrator with a long handle perfect for getting clitoral stimulation in all kinds of positions!
Our favourite g-spot vibrator would be the Lelo Elise. It comes in a decadent black and adorable pink, and unlike most g-spot vibrators has a deliciously girthy shaft for satisfying results. It’s also rechargeable, fully waterproof, and made out of body-safe silicone for an incredible ride.
Additionally, if you’re looking for a fantastic g-spot vibrator, but for a cheaper price, try the Satisfyer Yummy Sunshine or the Satisfyer Petting Hippo. Yes, those are their names, but for only $69.95 each while having strong vibration, magnetic charging, flexible silicone, and a perfect handle for your partner to send you to squirting paradise, they’re a steal!
Dildos
Dildos are an amazing option for all bodies to use in all sorts of ways and positions. Whether you’re planning on strapping up your harness with a fantastic dildo for pegging or strap-on play, or riding it while performing oral on your partner, they’ve got you covered.
For the best curvy girl sex we recommend dildos that are a little longer so you don’t have to get down so far to use them, you can get more of the internal length, and with great suction so you can use them anywhere! Our hands down top dildos for this would have to be the Fun Factory Magnum and the NS Novelties Colours 8” Silicone Dildo because both are long, feature quality body safe silicone, while giving you a variety of ways to play!
Butt Plugs & Prostate Toys
If you have a butt, there’s a perfect butt plug for you! Every body can enjoy butt plugs and prostate toys including yours! We have a perfect guide for selecting the perfect anal sex toy for you here that if you’re curious about anal play at all, you should definitely check out. However if you’re looking for the best sex toys for plus sized bodies specificially, we’ll definetly make some suggestions.
When choosing a vibrating butt toy as a bigger bodied person, we’re going to suggest vibrating anal toys that have a remote for ease. In all honesty, no one wants to constantly have to reach around to readjust to find that perfect setting, so go with a remote! Our favourite anal vibrators with remotes right now are the We-Vibe Vector prostate massager and the Rimming Slim Plugs that come in a smooth and curved option for a variety of full body sensations. Try an anal sex toy today and unlock all new incredible pleasure.
Top Sex Positions for Overweight People
We’re over stigmas stating what we can and can’t do in the bedroom based on our bodies. Knowledge is power and we’re here to arm you with everything you need to know to own your pleasure! Below you’ll find our favourite positions and sex tips for plus size bodies to help you get down and dirty!
Pillows; the Best Sex Accessory - We can’t even start talking about anything else until we talk about pillows! Pillows are truly the best sex accessory and you should always have at least three within reach. I could write a whole article on pillows, but I’ll sum it up by letting you know that they’re amazing for deeper penetrative positions, for avoiding neck stress during oral, and for holding toys in place when you want to give yourself a little bit of self love!
Sit on their face! Just do it! - We know for some that not everyone feels comfortable with the up close and personal approach of sitting on your partner’s face. If they’re eager to do it, rest assured that you definitely will not hurt them. They will be in pleasurable bliss giving you the orgasms you deserve, so just go for it! And if you’re still a little worried, hold onto your bed frame while their neck is propped up on a pillow for better stability and comfort.
Do It Doggy - Doggy-style is an amazing position for you and a partner to get deeper penetration during sex. An all around great position for every body hoping to achieve more intense pleasurable penetration, but even more so for bigger sized bodies! Start on your hands and knees, and modify the curve of your back, deepening the curve for deeper penetration if desired.
Fearlessly Flexible - You don’t have to be a perfect sex goddess to have hot intimate sex, but in this position you can certainly feel like one! Lie on your back with a pillow under your butt and bring your knees to your shoulders or spread out open. This is amazing for deep penetration that’s going to give you next level g-spot stimulation!
Confidently Sexy - You’re hot and know that you’ve got nothing to hide or feel insecure about. Your partner is super into you, your body is valid and beautiful, and it deserves pleasure and positivity. Body positivity, self acceptance, and confidence is something we’re always trying to work on, but know that you are valid, your sexuality and body are alluring and desirable, and most importantly confidence is the best bedroom (and life) accessory!
