With research suggesting that more people are reaching for intimate technology to better improve their sex lives, the taboo surrounding this topic has slowly but surely dissipated with the increasing popularity over the past decade.
The intimate technology available includes sex toys for couples, dildos for women and they aim to improve the sexual experience for couples as well as self-lovers. However, using sex toys requires some level of know-how in order to get the most gratification from them. This article will strive to explain how you can achieve this. Here are sex toys for best orgasm and explanation on how to use them;
Dildos and Vibrators
First things first, find the best dildo/vibrator for you as they come in different shapes sizes, modifications and prices. These can both be extremely enjoyable with your partner as well as by yourself.
For vibrators, ensure that you and/or your partner is relaxed and suitably turned on. Adjust it to a low setting and run it gently on your body focusing on where it feels pleasurable. Tease by starting slow, using your vibrator gently. Be sure to enjoy this step without feeling the pressure to penetrate. Once you build the pleasure tempo adjust the setting to whichever level desired.
Some people achieve orgasm by simply teasing the clitoral area with the vibrator while others prefer both penetration and clitoral stimulation. It's all a matter of preference. There's a variety of vibrating toys to suit what most intrigues you. For intense internal and g-spot pleasure, choose from our selection of g-spot vibes, and for a delicious combination of both, try a rabbit vibe, or a couple's vibe like the We-Vibe range of wearable vibes. For clitoral pleasure, any toy will work, but many prefer eggs and bullets for their manageable size.
The bullet is a small cylindrical vibrator about two inches long that is used to stimulate the clitoris. They're ideal to use for extra simulation on the clitoris during sex. Simply nuzzle it between you and your partner or take advantage of it's petite size for travel play, alone or together. It offers mind-blowing sensations and is a great boost to an amazing orgasm. You can also find ring vibes (worn on an erection during sex).
For dildos, it's really about the size you are comfortable with, and the shape that is most appealing to you. Some people prefer to use them solo to fulfill during masturbation, others with a partner. Consider one with a suction cup that can be attached to a smooth surface during use. Glass is a great option, especially with a lifetime warranty backing it, for it's weighty feel, and the incredibly smooth non-porous surface that is both enjoyable and easy to clean.
Anal Pleasure
Suitable for use by both men and women, anal toys can seriously improve your orgasms, or give you a unique anal orgasm all it's own. Choose from anal beads- these are a row of beads connected through with a flexible string or cord. They come in a variety of shapes and sizes and are inserted to provide extra sensation during all forms of sex, from oral to heterosexual sex. You can achieve intense sensation by gently pulling it out at the point of orgasm to achieve blended or anal orgasms.
Or try an anal vibe or prostate massager are great for stimulation of what's been called "the male g-spot". It is used for anal play by gently pulsating it and vibrating when inserted. This device can help you reach multiple as well as blended orgasms as the prostate gland is full of nerve endings and extremely sensitive to stimulation,
Masturbators
Easily the most popular form of masturbator is the realistic sex doll. Technological advancement has enabled the creation of these beauties. They are made out of TPE or silicone and used for a realistic sexual experience. Most people have increasingly become drawn to this technology as you can sexually experiment and fulfill your ever fantasy, be it oral, anal, or vaginal. The most realistic of the love dolls we carry are our DreamGirl dolls- lifesize, fully poseable, and beautifully designed realistic features inside and out.
Masturbators also come in small, discreet styles that stretch and move with your hand, or in a larger, very realistic feeling models, like the world-famous Fleshlight brand. You can also find vibrating models for an extra delicious sensation, or automatic ones to stimulate intensely satisfying oral sex.
Strap-Ons
Some harness strap-ons come with a dildo already attached and fit into a pocket or o-ring, while others sell the dildo separately- both of which allow for tons of versatility and options with dildo size and shape- some even vibrate. There's also a whole range of strap-ons intended to be worn by inserting it into the wearer, almost like a double ended dildo. Use your strap-on anally or vaginally, worn by him or her, or even alone- the harnesses can be strapped onto furniture or (as one of our customers told us quietly with a naughty smile) to a pillow.
One of the best thing about strap-ons is that they can be mutually pleasing (and not just because of that visual, yum). The wearer can achieve orgasm by placing the straps so that they rub against the clitoris or penis. Some harnesses do have a small pouch placed in just the right position to hold a vibrator, but even if it doesn't, the straps still allow for playtime with fingers or toys.
The easiest way to explain how to use sex toys for more intense, powerful orgasms is to use your imagination! Regardless of whether you're engaging in self-love, or with a partner, every toy can be used in a unique way to offer unique sensations and increase your orgasm.
