Best Long Distance Sex Toys in 2021

We’ve all heard it, whether you’ve been in one or not, maintaining long-distance relationships can be a struggle for everyone involved in them. Especially when it comes to intimacy and sex as those factors can often be difficult to navigate at long-distance for extended periods of time.

However, in 2021 there is now so much amazing sex tech that can help us become closer together than ever before from across the world! Since there are so many options on the market, we’ve ranked our best long distance sex toys to bring you and your partner(s) relentless satisfaction even when apart. Without adieu, here are our best long distance sex toys in 2021!


1. Lovense Lush 3 -

After the worldwide success of the Lush 2, Lovense has introduced the newly innovated Lush 3 with all of the upgrades users have asked for. This Bluetooth app-controlled vibrator delivers powerfully strong vibrations that are G-spot centric perfect for unparalleled G-spot orgasms, and squirting. Control this toy anywhere for foreplay or use during oral and outercourse. For only $189.95, this newest iteration of a worldwide sensation will be an absolute favourite. Check out Bedbibbles take 6 Best Long Distance Sex Toys

Toy Features:
  • Bluetooth App Control
  • Customizable Settings, Spotify Music Synching, & Alarm Clock Setting
  • Strong Internal Vibrations
  • 100 % Waterproof & Submergible
  • Body-safe Silicone
  • Magnetic Charging
  • 1 Year Warranty

Lovense Lush 3

2. We-Vibe Chorus -

We-Vibe has held the title of the #1 best couples’ toy for over 17 years bringing pleasure to couples around the globe and the Chorus is their newest, most innovative app controlled sex toy! It’s C-Shaped to deliver powerful rumbly vibrations both clitorally and internally, while small enough to be used during penetration for ultimate shared orgasms for both of you. Use it with the app for fun long-distance play, or use it together with the handheld remote that features squeeze control! For only $229.95, bring home the perfect sex toy for any occasion.

Toy Features:
  • Bluetooth App Control & Handheld Remote Control
  • Customizable Settings & Music Synching
  • Strong Clitoral & Internal Vibration
  • 100 % Waterproof & Submergible
  • Body-safe Silicone
  • Magnetic Charging
  • 2 Year Warranty

We-Vibe Chorus

3. Lovense Ferri -

One of Lovense’s newest creations; the Ferri, has us jaw dropping and begging for more! The Ferri takes panty vibes to a new level with a magnet that allows this clitoral vibrator to be used with any pair of panties you own and ensures it stays exactly where you want it to! Paired with the Lovense Bluetooth app, for only $179.95 this toy will have you coming discreetly anywhere you want!

Toy Features:
  • Bluetooth App Control
  • Customizable Settings, Music Synching, & Alarm Clock Setting
  • Strong External Vibrations
  • 100 % Waterproof & Submergible
  • Body-safe Silicone
  • Magnetic Charging
  • 1 Year Warranty

Lovense Ferri

4. We-Vibe Melt -

The We-Vibe Melt came to the market after We-Vibe purchased Womanizer and uses all the same tech, but in a more petite package, with the added benefit of the ability to connect to the We-Vibe Bluetooth app so that everyone can join in! It starts pretty strong and only gets stronger, delivering smooth suction that can satisfy again and again. Only $159.95, this toy is a fantastic option for combining luxury quality intense suction and app controlled clitoral suction!

Toy Features:
  • Bluetooth App Control
  • Customizable Settings & Music Synching
  • Powerful Clitoral Suction
  • 100 % Waterproof & Submergible
  • Body-safe Silicone
  • Magnetic Charging
  • 2 Year Warranty

We-Vibe Melt

5. We-Vibe Vector -

Vector combines deep and rumbly vibrations with adjustable prostate stimulation for intense prostate orgasms. Paired with the We-Vibe Bluetooth app, you can customize the patterns and use during masturbation, foreplay or intercourse, or use the remote for easy access! During intercourse, the Vector is powerful enough to turn his whole penis into a vibrator! Encourage curious and exciting play with the We-Vibe Vector for only $149.95! If it’s a little small for you, try the Lovense Edge 2!

Toy Features:
  • Bluetooth App Control & Handheld Remote Control
  • Customizable Settings & Music Synching
  • Strong Prostate Vibration
  • 100 % Waterproof & Submergible
  • Body-safe Silicone
  • Magnetic Charging
  • 2 Year Warranty

We-Vibe Vector

6. We-Vibe Nova 2 -

A fantastic toy for solo play, but great with a partner as it can sync to the we-vibe Bluetooth app to invite others to play! The We-Vibe Nova 2 features an adjustable G-spot internal vibrator to angle perfectly for every body, guaranteeing orgasms a-plenty and is great for squirting! It also has a very flexible and powerful clitoral vibrator which is curved to ensure clitoral-contact at all times that doubles as a fantastic stroking tool for penises as well. Overall, one of our top picks, this toy retails at only $159.95 and has incredible versatility together and apart!

Toy Features:
  • Bluetooth App Control & Handheld Remote Control
  • Customizable Settings & Music Synching
  • Strong Clitoral & Internal Vibration
  • Can Also Be Used As A Penis Stroker
  • 100 % Waterproof & Submergible
  • Body-safe Silicone
  • Magnetic Charging
  • 2 Year Warranty

We-Vibe Nova 2

7. Satisfyer Curvy 2+ -

Brand new in 2021, Satisfyer has released lots of app-compatible toys that we can’t say enough about! The Curvy + line from Satisfyer features 3 differently shaped clitoral suction toys, much like the We-Vibe Melt, that have clitoral suction, vibration, and an app all built into one unit for only $69.95! An amazing product that has unparalleled value for the price point! The Curvy 1+ has a larger suction opening for those who like less direct clitoral stimulation or to fit larger clitoris’ more comfortable, the Curvy 3+ has a smaller suction opening for pinpoint direct pleasure, and the Curvy 2+ is right in the middle making it the most popular of the series.

Toy Features:
  • Bluetooth App Control
  • Customizable Settings
  • Strong Clitoral Suction And Vibration
  • 100 % Waterproof & Submergible
  • Body-safe Silicone
  • Magnetic Charging
  • 1 Year Warranty, 15 Year Guarantee

Satisfyer Curvy 2+

Now that you’ve got the right tools for the job, it’s important to know how to maintain your sex life in a long-distance relationship. Even with the top sex toys needed for long-distance relationships, we suggest these golden tips to keep it sexy, fun, and flirtatious even miles apart!


Make it A Conversation - Communicate about masturbation and self-sex habits

Communication is as easy as we make it to be! When you can, let your partner know that you’re thinking of them and tell them all about how you like to self-pleasure when they’re not there. They’ll love to hear it, if not visualize what you’re doing, and it helps them know from afar when you’re in the mood!


Mutual Masturbation - Add your partner into your masturbation sessions

Once communicating about what solo play looks like for you, talk to your partner about if they’d like to join you and when. Whether that’s sexting, phone sex, or a dirty skype call, whatever you both find comfortable we always encourage mutual masturbation together and apart!


“Finding Time” - Making time for date nights, intimate moments, & more

The idea of “finding time” isn’t real, but making time is! Schedule online dates, romantic dinners, sensual evenings, and mutual movie watching together when you can. All you have to do is commit to what you can around your already busy schedule and the time is already made for you!


Make Time For Toys - Adding sex toys!

Now sex toys are creative and allow couples and individuals to take play anywhere and everywhere! Take time to imagine where in your life you’d be comfortable wearing your sex toys when out in public, and invite your partner to take control! Or, enable remote control during mutual masturbation with sex toys so they can really hear you react to their control!