Why the Butt Plug?

A super common question and the butt of many jokes (sorry) is "What's the point of a butt plug?"

Well, I usually answer "If you're lucky, not too pointy at all."
And that's where the jokes stop.
Basically butt plugs are used for couple reasons, one is for training or in preparation of anal sex and another is to provide a more "full" feeling during sex play. There are a multitude of different shapes and sizes, colors and materials but really, if you're into it or looking to make it a part of your sex play, there is one for almost every body.
Size of course is probably one of the most important factors when shopping for a plug initially and your purpose for buying one will usually help your decision. If you're goal is to train yourself to be comfortable with something in your rectum, then starting small and working your way up is a great way to get the ball rolling. Like any anal play, feeling comfortable is key for yourself or for you and your partner. Start with something small with a more slender insertable dimension and large flare on the base. The plug itself can take on a multitude of shapes but a basic oblong contour for most beginners is easier to accommodate and wear in comfortably. A large flare on the base will stop the plug from slipping into your rectum entirely. Because the rectum travels directly into your bowels, it's important to note that pushing any toy too far inside can result in you losing it, which is why almost all anal based toys have a tether, flare or ring to retrieve it when you're done. 

The type of lube you use depends largely on what material your toy is made of, vinyl or metal toys can be used with any sort of lube but if you're using latex toys, oil based lubes will destroy the material. Similarly silicone lube with silicone toys will cause the material to pit (small perforations and craters on the surface) leaving little places for bacteria to hide. The use of lube with anal toys can't be understated and don't rely on spit either; it's absorbed into the tissue too easily and doesn't last long at all. If you're picking up a toy, grab some appropriate lube while you're there. 

And some toy cleaner.
Go on, treat yo' self.

The material of your toy is really up to whomever is going to be having this thing up inside them but different materials provide different experiences. There are two main categories: hard and soft. Metal, plastics and glass fall into the first category and soft ones are usually silicone, latex or rubber. Glass and metal plugs provide a weightier feeling (like the DreamToys stainless steel or Tutti Pop Glass plug) that many find very enjoyable, giving them the sensation of something inside them without having to accommodate a larger toy, although they can certainly be big enough if you need. The hard surface of these plugs just on their own is often enough stimulation and can really get the body ready for more. Using this kind of a toy during intercourse will also add a new dimension for your partner as they plug can be felt pushing against the shared wall between the rectum and the vagina. For those not as experienced though, vigorous sex should be limited in time, as the pressure can cause the thing tissues of the rectum to get sore from constant use. Those more accustomed to anal toys will be able to gauge more readily how long is enough. 

Softer material toys like silicone and latex products may be easier for those less experienced with anal insertion. The soft body of the insertable will give when first penetrating your rectum and the lighter weight will result in the feeling of fullness but without the "dropping" weight that a heavier plug may offer. Also, a softer plug has the same benefit of pushing against the shared vaginal wall but gives way a bit more resulting in the vagina feeling tighter but with the bonus of the full feeling anally as well. Softer toys can also be left in a little bit longer than harder toys but use caution and always plenty of lube as well. A smaller beginner toy like the Tantus Little Flirt is great soft slim insertable and for those with more experience, the Tantus Plug Ace has more girth at the base adding a bit more stretch for those who love it, or in anticipation of anal sex.



Toy shape can add a lot to user sensation as well of course. The rectum continues right up into the bowels, so a long plug can be inserted but really the receptors and nerve endings are far more present closer to entry in the first 2-3 inches. A longer insertable is generally used for a toy intending for thrusting penetration (like the Ophoria silicone plug or Lelo Earl) and have rings or handles for solo or partner grip, while these aren't "technically" plugs, they're worth mentioning as you'll often find them in the same section and might wonder why they look a bit different . Some plugs have a slight curve to them intended for prostate massage as well like the Aneros line which not only have a curve butt are designed to rock gently inside with movement to provide a tapping pressure on the prostate.

When it comes down to it, plugs can be used for all sorts of things; an enjoyable feeling of fullness during intercourse, in preparation for anal sex or anal stimulation on its own. Regardless of your intent, be comfortable, ensure your partner is comfortable and above all have a great time exploring!