Toys for Boys

When a group of women talk about their new sex toys, they are often met with a positive response. Their friends will ask where they got their toys, talk features and favorites, and even go out and buy the same one. One woman that I spoke with said that she regularly hosts adult toy parties in her home. When I mentioned that I work for LoveDreamer, she had a big smile on her face. She knows the products well and says that she can always find great deals on our site. One of her top sellers is the Please Satisfy Silicone Wand, a versatile toy which led me to an important question: I asked her if she has any men that join her parties, however, her facial expression said it all! 

 No men have come to her parties, because she has never even brought up the subject. After a few minutes of speaking with her about adult sex toys for men, I hopefully have changed her mind. Ladies, we tend to talk about our vibrators like we talk about any other topic with our close friends, but what about the men in our lives? Women seem to have an unspoken permission to have a few toys to help satisfy them, so why are men met with such disgust when they are found to have their own toys?

I had to get to the bottom of this! I took a daring leap into the unknown and asked several of my male friends, both with partners and without. I was amazed when the men I spoke with, if they had their own toys, were very reluctant to speak freely about them. After a few encouraging words, they started to open up. Out of the men that owned sex toys, only two had female partners. Out of those two, only one partner knew about the said toy and actually had rules on when he could use it. I was shocked! Rules? I asked him if he had rules for his partner on when they could use their toys. He looked at me as if I had two heads!

After gathering more information from the men I spoke with, I had decided that this topic had to be brought into the light. Just because a man owns a butt plug or a masturbator, does not mean he’s “dirty” or “creepy”, it just means that he likes to have the option of experiencing and experimenting with different pleasures- sometimes with some help from a toy.

 

As a woman, it is hard to admit that my fellow ladies are bashing men who use sex toys. I feel that men have every right to own a few toys, not just if they are single and don’t have a regular partner to help satisfy them. As for the men with partners, you have the same right as well. If your partner is upset because they just found your Fleshlight or butt plug, turn around and ask them to show you their toys! I bet they have more toys than you do. Even if your partner does not own any toys, there is no need to feel ashamed just because you have some. Men and women have sexual needs that are, for any reason, satisfied with help from an adult toy.

So, I say to all men out there: Bring out your butt plugs and masturbators! Don’t be ashamed, we all need a little help sometimes so why not have the toy do all the work? If you are a man and have not gotten a toy for yourself yet, shop our website- there's so many items to choose from that are high quality and affordable. And if you're part of a couple, make it a new, shared experience for the both of you- you might be surprised at how much stronger your bond becomes, and how much better the sex is.

Happy shopping to all! And for those ladies who are still disgusted about the thought of your man with a sex toy, you better not use yours if he can’t use his. ;)